What is your relationship with Jesus???


What is your relationship with Jesus based on?  What is your prayer like?  There are many ways to pray, but a common way is the prayer of petition.  This a prayer that is based on asking the Lord for things.  So some people ask to win the lottery, for example.  Some petitions are more honorable: they ask the Lord to bless their family, for world peace, or for health.  And all of these prayers are good because the prayer of petition is good.  But this should not be at the heart of our relationship with Jesus.

You see, many of us may only speak to Jesus when we need something, or our daily prayer is based on asking favors of the Lord.  But our prayer and our relationship with the Lord should not be based upon what we get from him.  Our prayer should be to know Jesus Christ alone!  We should seek the Lord not for specific favors; we should seek him because he is God!  We should seek him for himself.  St. Augustine said it best: “You seek [Jesus] for worldly motives, not for spiritual ones.  How many people there are who seek Jesus solely for worldly ends!  Rarely does someone look for Jesus for the sake of Jesus.”

A true relationship with the Lord is about friendship with him. What should be at the heart of our prayer is being with Jesusdwelling with him…abiding with him.  Just simply sitting in his presence.  Being with Jesus because he’s Jesus…not because he can give us something.  This is what Jesus wanted the crowd to know: he didn’t want them searching for him because he physically fed them; he wanted them searching for him because he alone could spiritually fill them.  He wanted them searching for him because he’s God and he’s the one who could give meaning to their lives; he could fill their deepest longings and satisfy their deepest desires.

John chapter 6 speaks of the Holy Eucharist.  Jesus tells us that he himself is the bread of life.  When we go to Mass we are privileged to receive Jesus Christ in Holy Communion.  When we go to Mass we should seek Jesus alone because he is the only one who can fill us.  “Whoever comes to me will never hunger, and whoever believes in me will never thirst.”


11 thoughts on “What is your relationship with Jesus???

  1. Thanks for bringing this to attention. I think that asking for things in prayer – while it’s still a form of prayer because we’re in union with God – is an inferior type of prayer, because we aren’t acting directly from the Heart of God. It seems like we aren’t one with His will at that stage, having not fully accepted it.

    Mesiter Eckhart said on prayer: “The very best kind of prayer that we can pray there should be no ‘give me this particular virtue or devotion’ or ‘yes, Lord, give me yourself or eternal life’, but rather ‘Lord, give me only what you will and do, Lord only what you will and in the way that you will it’. ”

    It’s very sound advice in my book.

  2. I have a very up-down relationship with our Lord and Savior.
    Please pray accordingly.

    I like the simple look of your blog – and thanks for visiting my blog today.

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